Stress: The Good, The Bad, and How to Deal

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Face it. Stress is inevitable. You are bound to stress out the minute you wake up and get out of bed.

Lately these weeks have been getting busier and busier, these days have been getting longer and longer, these eyes are growing and tired and this body has become restless. It’s the stress from work that makes you pull your hair, the stress from school that makes you sigh, and just the stress from life that makes you cry.

The Difference between Good Stress and Bad Stress

You have to understand that the good stress motivates you, it makes you get yo ur life together and start working. Without good stress, you can imagine that there wouldn’t be much work done. Sure, there’s an assignment due at midnight and there’s some reading that needs to be done by next class but those are manageable tasks.

The bad stress is something much different. The bad stress makes you want to cry, rip out your hair, and not do work at all. The bad stress makes you feel so overwhelmed that you’re sick to your stomach. It makes you feel like you can’t breathe and you can’t focus.

What I’m trying to say is that there’s a good amount of stress that is beneficial to your daily life. The overwhelming stress can’t and won’t help you at all and stressing to the point of a mental break down won’t get you anywhere.

Remember, stress is inevitable but you do have control over what you stress over and how much you stress about it.

How To Deal

With this, here are some tips and advice to remember from some professional stressed out procrastinators who can relate to your struggles on the super-saiyan spiritual level.

1. It’s not worth it. 

  • The stress and the worry, of course. Continually stressing and worrying won’t help or get anything done. The only thing that it can do is make you more worried and stressed out to the point where you end up crying on the kitchen floor eating the half-tub of freezer burned ice cream.

“Let it go. Just let it go. Finals week and every week is that time where I’m just so stressed out and I feel like I’m not getting anything done. It all just seems so so important but after I realize that it’s not all that important,” said Emily Scates, History sophomore.

2. Stay organized. Stay on top. 

  • It’s understandable that once you get caught up in the moment, it’s difficult to keep organized and keep track of time. But especially in these harder, more difficult times stay organized and keep track of time. It is amazing how much less stressful life is when you can visually see how many tasks you need to do and when to do them by. Your mind gets so boggled down when you think you have so much to do but it’s the simple things like writing those tasks down, that changes things.

“Try to keep on top of your schedule when you know you have upcoming assignments due. It’s easier said than done.” said Sarah Bridger, professor of history at Cal Poly.

3. Make time for yourself. Find motivation.  

  • The importance of finding time of yourself. Yes, this blog emphasizes greatly on time for yourself… but it is important. Finding time to yourself gives you the time to breathe, reflect, and find more motivation. It’s important to get a grip on your emotions and understand that this stress is only temporary.

“A lot of times I feel that I put too much emphasis on the importance or difficulty of something I’m doing.Yes, it’s important to do my best in everything I do, but in the large scope of life,  I believe God’s got everything under control.” said Eric Cuyle, business admin junior.

It’s a cheesy and stupid reminder… but in the end all this stress is temporary. Sure, finals week and midterms week is pretty important. Of course, you should do your very best during this time. But just remember to breathe cause breathing is pretty important.

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